How to save your marriage from your kids

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This is not a good sign. Arguments Nobody likes an argument, especially when it is with someone you have strong feelings for.

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I feel like my partner is just with me because of the kids... Firstly we had twins which has put a huge strain on our relationship. I am now 30 weeks and I feel as if this new baby has pushed him away. We weren't ready for another baby and were just getting back to our old selves and getting in a routine. Sorry if tmi but sex was great and we had such a passion and love for each other. Now we barely touch or kiss and it's breaking my heart! I haven't had it easy through this pregnancy and I feel like a burden. I've spent the last 6 months crying every day and I know I have prenatal depression and post natal depression diagnosed. I just feel so alone and he can't even see. I think the worst thing you can do is bottle it up. Be open and honest with him about how you feel. Maybe even ask if he wants out point blank. Say you love him but feel blah blah blah.... Something has to change caz you don't feel well at all about where your relationship is headed. I would not get advice from people you know who may only just make things worse.. Go straight to him. He may not even have noticed it being as bad. Maybe things are off at work or he is stressing about finances and ensuring you are all taken care of. Guys are usually very logical about things and more factual then emotional so I always talk and 90 per cent of the time it gets sorted. How I see it is not how he does..... You should chat to him. Ask him to just tell you how he is feeling and tell him how you feel. You need to be able to rely on him for support once Bub gets here, especially if you have depression. It's not easy facing that alone so I would be open and honest and just say exactly what you have written here. Hope you feel better soon x Pregnancy is hard with all the hormones and everything else that goes on! It's important to be honest but to also recognize now is probably not the time to make big decisions or trust your feelings completely. I know my emotions are all over the place so I try to talk to my Mum about things first to make sure my perspective isn't skewed. I'm blessed coz she's well balanced and will look at the situation realistically. Do you have someone like that? Remember love isn't just an emotion - it's a commitment and a decision as well. Baby's grow up and hormones balance out - esp with dr help :. I turned talking to him and he simply said not this shit again... I ended up on the lounge as he didn't even react when I sobbed my heart out next to him. I know he loves me but I don't feel he is in love with me and that's what I need because our love was one in a million and he put me so high on a pedestal that I forgot my horrible past and let him in. Now I'm just left broken and wondering if it's even worth the fight. You r not alone mumma!! My hubby and I were so passionate toward eachother before I got pregnant and now I'm like a grumpy old bat that constantly snaps at everyone. Things certainly aren't the same but I'm sure once these hormones get back to normal so will we!! Hand in there and just keep communicating with him and remind him how much you love and appreciate him : Just talk to him and tell him how do you feel. Ask him if he can listen to you. My husband and I have this rule which we established after the marriage. Every 3 months or so we would sit and talk what is bothering us or what we can change in our relationship. For example, I would tell how I feel and if there were any situations in our relationship that I wasn't satisfied with. I think open communication is really important. Sweetie depression is a serious illness, but a manageable one, are you seeing a psychologist? I think most of us need one at some point in life. I had serious exogenous depression in 2011 and less than 10 visits with a lovely psychologist over 6 months and I felt back to my old self after a few years of feeling terrible. Our relationship wouldn't have made it without me seeking help, and its been almost 13 years together now and we are so happy. That's my journey and yours would be different but when someone has depression they need support and it sounds like your partner is unable to give it at the moment. Good on you for reaching out, I agree with the other poster who said communication is key to a healthy relationship. Perhaps a letter telling him how you feel and what you wish for you both and your kids may be an easier way to communicate to him. You can get back to how you both were together, just with kids now : Stay positive and let him know that's what you want. I really hope you talk to your health professional about this too. I really do care for people going through depression, its not easy. Best wishes xo Are you able to both go to counselling? Sometimes speaking to a third party as mediator can help. I have been with my partner just past two years and we are having our second unexpected child. This puts a strain on of course, as we never really had time to do the dating thing before we were thrown into a relationship and living together. And it can be hard for a man to understand how hormones affect us. I feel like my whole relationship has been pregnant, breastfeeding, sleep deprived, cranky me lol. When I'm pregnant I do get sensitive and think Im unattractive and that my partner doesn't love me or that he might secretly wish he's with someone easier. He has to reassure me regularly and it's draining on him and can frustrate him, but I cant help those emotions and he half understands it's hormonal. They don't always get it though. It might be good to see a counsellor that specialises in pregnancy couples counselling. Xx All contents copyright © BabyCenter, L. This Internet site provides information of a general nature and is designed for educational purposes only. 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Who's got the energy to be romantic -- heck, to even hold a conversation for more than five custodes -- after spending a day at the beck and call of a baby. Ensuring your children have the best possible start in life isn't about taking folic acid and practising your labour breathing techniques - it's about entering parenthood with your eyes wide open and with a sin from both you and your partner to do this as a team. This way you don't take it out on your partner. I was dancing around the lounge with the kids to ABBA. Give each other at least two compliments a day. I hope that this article, 17 Jesus To Look Out For To Know If Your Relationship Is On The Rocks, has helped you. So, the first thing you should do is bring her a glass of water and a snack, then go and get the washing in.